Plant your own Garden, Decorate Your Own Soul

Do you ever read Ann Landers?  She is gone now and I miss reading her newspaper column. I must say I enjoy reading the Dear Ann Lander section.  Some of her articles I cut and pasted them on the inside door of my dresser so that when I open the door, the first thing I see are the articles not the clothes. 
This poem was published in one of her articles. 
After a while you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning
And company doesn’t mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts
And presents aren’t promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,
And you learn to build all your roads on today,
Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure…
That you really are strong,
And you really do have worth.
And you learn and learn…
With every goodbye you learn.
Author: Veronica A. Shoffstall

42 thoughts on “Plant your own Garden, Decorate Your Own Soul

  1. I wanted to give you the award that Shaun gave me, but I saw that he gave it to you … Consider it given! I enjoy our back and forth, and your posts. So thank you, Perpetua! 🙂

  2. I haven’t heard from you for awhile and was just wondering what you were up to. I did not read Ann Landers’ column, I don’t know when she passed or when that would have all been, but between college and law school I was burnt out on reading and I’m just starting to S-L-O-W-L-Y pick up again after let’s see here…six years. Anyways, this poem is really beautiful and particularly, in its own way, applicable to a difficult time I am going through right now. So thanks for posting it ;0) Can always count on something wonderful from you ;0)

      • Ohh BELIEVE me, baby steps and keep on breathing, that’s precisely what I needed to hear this morning ;0). It’s been a rough one so hopefully it gets better and I can get in to talk to the doc today! Thanks for being there. You are so very uplifting :0)

    • I stumbled into that one yesterday. The holy garden is just a delight to look at. One day, I’ll write a story about ti. Thank you, Paulette.

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